10 tips for building rapport with neurodivergent colleagues

Written by: Sam Warner
Published on: 5 November 2025

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Building rapport with neurodivergent colleagues is essential for creating an inclusive and supportive work environment. Here are 10 tips to help you foster strong relationships: 

1. Understand Neurodiversity: 

Educate yourself about different neurodivergent conditions, such as autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and anxiety. Recognize that everyone’s brain works differently. 

2. Be Patient and Empathetic: 

Neurodivergent individuals may have unique communication styles or social challenges. Show patience, understanding, and empathy when interacting with them. 

3. Create a Safe Space: 

Foster an environment where neurodivergent colleagues feel safe expressing themselves without judgment. Encourage open dialogue and active listening. 

4. Adapt Communication Styles: 

Be flexible in your communication. Some neurodivergent individuals prefer written instructions, while others may benefit from visual aids or clear verbal instructions. 

5. Build Trust Gradually: 

Trust is crucial. Take the time to build trust through consistent interactions, reliability, and understanding. Trust allows for more meaningful collaborations. 

6. Avoid Sarcasm and Ambiguity: 

Be direct and clear in your communication. Neurodivergent colleagues may struggle with sarcasm or vague statements.

7. Provide Feedback Thoughtfully: 

When giving feedback, focus on constructive criticism. Be specific and offer actionable steps for improvement. 

8. Recognize Strengths: 

Celebrate the unique strengths that neurodivergent colleagues bring to the team. Leverage their abilities and provide opportunities for growth. 

9. Promote Inclusivity: 

Ensure that meetings and team activities are inclusive. Consider different communication styles and sensory needs when planning events. 

10. Be Respectful: 

Treat everyone with respect and kindness. Avoid making assumptions or stereotypes based on neurodiversity. 

Remember, building rapport takes time, effort, and understanding. 

If you need help to communicate this to your teams contact Sam who can provide training.

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About Sam Warner
Sam Warner is a Neurodivergent Communication Specialist and uses her lived experience to work with leaders across multiple industries to improve their DEI policies to help them attract and retain talented Neurodivergent (Autistic, ADHD, Dyslexia etc) employees.