10 Tips to help Neurodivergent colleagues build relationships at work

Written by: Sam Warner
Published on: 5 November 2025

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Building relationships at work can be challenging for anyone, but it’s especially important for
neurodivergent individuals. Here are 10 tips to help them thrive in a workplace environment:

1. Self-awareness:

Understand your own neurodivergent traits and how they might impact your
interactions with others. Knowing your strengths and challenges will help you navigate social situations
effectively.

2. Advocate for yourself:

Don’t hesitate to communicate your needs. If you require specific
accommodations or adjustments, discuss them openly with your manager or colleagues.

3. Learn about neurodiversity:

Educate your co-workers about neurodiversity. Bust myths and
misconceptions by sharing information and resources. Awareness leads to better understanding and
acceptance.

4. Choose the right environment:

If possible, find a workspace that suits your needs. Some
neurodivergent individuals thrive in quieter, less distracting areas, while others prefer collaborative
spaces.

5. Networking events:

Attend company events, workshops, and social gatherings. These provide
opportunities to connect with colleagues outside of work tasks. Remember, building relationships is
about quality, not quantity

6. Active listening:

Practice active listening during conversations. Show genuine interest in what others
say, ask follow-up questions, and validate their perspectives. People appreciate being heard.

7. Social cues:

Pay attention to nonverbal cues like body language, tone, and facial expressions. These
cues provide valuable context during interactions. If you’re unsure, ask for clarification.

8. Find common interests:

Seek out shared hobbies or interests with co-workers. Whether it’s a love for
hiking, a favourite TV show, or a passion for coding, common ground helps build connections.

9. Collaborate on projects:

Working together on tasks fosters camaraderie. Collaborate with colleagues,
share ideas, and celebrate achievements as a team. It strengthens professional relationships.

10. Practice empathy:

Understand that everyone has unique perspectives and experiences. Be patient,
kind, and empathetic toward your co-workers. Building relationships takes time, so give it the effort it
deserves.

Remember, building relationships is an ongoing process. Be patient with yourself, celebrate small victories,
and focus on creating meaningful connections.


If you need help to communicate this to your teams, contact Sam who can provide training.

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About Sam Warner
Sam Warner is a Neurodivergent Communication Specialist and uses her lived experience to work with leaders across multiple industries to improve their DEI policies to help them attract and retain talented Neurodivergent (Autistic, ADHD, Dyslexia etc) employees.